Well, I think you need to seriously think this over. Like I told my last anon, you need to make sure that you talk to both of these men and get on the same page with them. Having a child with one of them adds something significant, but you shouldn’t be with them if you’re not happy. Once you’re on the same page with both of them, create a pro-con list and decide which man makes you the happiest and is the best for your life. Be concise and remember that this is your choice and no one else’s.