Dear Backstabbed,
Well, there are a lot of variables in this question. Are you dating with the guy in question, or just interested in him? Is this girl your best friend or just his best friend? What were the circumstances of the flirting?
Either way, it’s difficult to see the guy you’re interested in flirting with someone else, especially when you feel the girl is backstabbing you. You need to decide how important this guy is and talk to him about how it made you feel (if you’re together). If you’re not together, talk to the girl and explain to her how upset you are.
Either way, the guy and girl may not be worth your time if they’re both hurting your feelings. I hope I helped.
- Ted
What do you mean? Barney does a lot questionable things, that’s true. But he’s not a bad person!
Unfortunately, followers, my inbox seems to be empty. I have this entire week off from work and I’d love to answer any and all questions you might have. Just click the picture and it’ll take you straight there. Hope to hear from you guys soon!
Alright, I know I’ve been on and off a lot over the last couple of months, and I don’t mean to be that way. But between planning Barney and Robin’s wedding, and working full time, things fall through the cracks. I will try to be here more often, however, as I know you guys miss me as much as I miss you. Now, my secretary has something to say…
Hey guys! I’m sorry Ted and I have been so absent. I’ve been finishing up my last year at college and haven’t had a lot of time for tumblr. However, I have wonderful news! I was accepted into the Disney College Program this summer and fall. Things are pretty tight for me financially however, so I’m not sure how much I’ll have when I get to Florida. There are so many expenses and there was such a small amount of time to save. I opened a GoFundMe account, and while I’m not expecting much, if anything at all, I figured it couldn’t hurt.
I’ll include the link here, and please don’t feel obligated to donate. I really am not the kind of person who enjoys asking for money, but I’ve been told time and time again that it never hurts to ask. So, here it is.
I’ll be sure to answer Ted’s questions pronto.
- Kathryn
Dear Talkative Girl,
Well, it depends on how often this boy has hurt you. Has it only been once, or does he give these backhanded comments often?
It’s always nice to hear these things from people, the sweet compliments and the I love yous. But they don’t always mean as much as we’d like them to. I think that though you can give him some trust, you really need to talk to him and get on the same page.
Ask him what his intentions are, where he’s taking this relationship. He should love you for your flaws, and you should never have to hide them. If the glass shatters, it will shatter because he doesn’t deserve you.
- Ted
I miss you too, anonymous. I apologize for my extended absence.
